A GOOD WOMAN, MAKES A GOOD WIFE AND A GOOD WIFE BECOMES A GOOD MOTHER. A GOOD MOTHER GIVES BIRTH TO A GOOD CHILD. IF YOU WANT TO BE A GOOD WOMAN, WIFE AND MOTHER, EMULATE THESE STEPS BELOW:
1). Never raise your voice for any reason at your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.
2). Don’t expose your husband’s weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you. You are each other’s keeper.
3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don’t have a happy home.
4). Never compare your husband to other men. You’ve no idea what their lifestyles are all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.
5). Never ill treat your husband’s friends because you don’t like them. The person who’s supposed to get rid of them is your husband. Only suggest humbly.
6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.
7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband. People may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.
8). Never blame your husband if he returns home empty handed. Rather encourage him.
9). Never be a wasteful wife. Your husband’s sweat is too precious to be wasted.
10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband’s needs. You must give it to him how he wants it. It’s very important to Men. If you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over that duty (including the “anointed” ones). A Often, anointing doesn’t extend to this-STOP over spiritualizing your INTIMACY with your spouse if your marriage must last.
11). Never compare your husband to your one time Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.
12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, until he permits you. Let him handle what is directed at/to him, although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.
13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don’t do that.
14). Don’t forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.
15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.
16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.
17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don’t waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave.
18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?
19). Don’t forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home.
20). If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. It’s always team work.
21). Don’t be too judgmental with your husband. No man wants a nagging wife.
22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn’t even know that her body needs a bath.
23). Does your husband like a kind of cooked food? Try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food.
24). Never be too demanding to your husband. Enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.
25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty.
26). Don’t associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.
27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.
28) A confrontational wife, can never keep a good husband and her home. She will be grooming irresponsible sons, especially daughters without manners.
29) A woman who cannot manage her children, home and husband is a complete failure in life, no matter her achievements.
30) A wise woman honours her husband, and respects him; and the husband will reciprocate, by cherishing and loving her dearly-it will be natural. Husband is a beautiful gift from God. It’s an aberration for a woman to stay without a husband. No good man on earth can tolerate a confrontational and argumentative wife, except they have lost their value and become less of a real man.
31). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from God. It’s not your wife’s fault if a particular sex isn’t forthcoming. It depends largely in the husband, so love your children and teach them well.
32). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason.
33). A prayerful wife is very wise and intelligent. She is a better equipped wife. Pray always for your husband and family. Conquer all your challenges and problems with prayers. Only God can solve our problems-not parent, not pastors or Imam. Not anybody but, only you and God
Send it to every woman you know. You never know whose marriage you are about to save. And to every man so that the women in their lives can be appreciated.
PLEASE MAKE SURE YOUR WIFE READS THIS, IF YOU DESIRE A PEACEFUL